~WHY THE PORCH~

A front porch isn’t just a way to get to the front door ~ no ma’am it’s a Southern tradition we cherish here in the South. It is a place where we sit and feel the cool breezes in both the Springtime and the Fall. Where we sit and watch our children play in the yard, and listen to the birds sing as they happily build there nest for each Spring.

A place where people fall in love ~ where that daughter tells her parents she is going to be a Mother for the first time. A place where secrets are told ~ keep and taken to the grave. Where Southern recipes are discussed, and shared.

Laughter is generated there ~ as well tears at times. As a kid my Mother friends would gather on our porch and drink their sweet iced tea ~ and talk about all the ironing and canning they had done, that was about all us kids got  to  hear then we were sent off the porch to play. A porch is a tradition for us here for so many reasons. We have weather that allows us to be out many months in the year on that porch chatting ~ reading ~ laughing ~ and as I said sometimes crying. But~ I love a porch and have one here on my home. Many of my friends gather here ~ and we too chat ~ share secrets ~ and take them serious.

We are just carrying on a family tradition with our “Porch”  that’s why we love them, all the memories in our lifetime ~ so many on the porch. So, if you didn’t  know why we loved our porches so, now you do.. Not only that but they do add that certain curb appeal still today ~ that we Southern folk love so much here in the South.

 

 

 

~A room filled with my Parents Things~

After loosing both of my parents less than 2 years ago ~ I decided to bring some things from their home and make a room filled with their things. S0, I did just that, I now have a room I can go to when I want to read~ pray~ nap or just reflect back on days gone by. Days we spent together as family. My parents were frugal  people. My dad taught me the value of a dollar ~ and that your credit was very important, and you were only as good as your word.

While my Mother taught me sweetness ~ how to cook the best Southern dishes, and how to re-finish furniture. And of course to be the “BEST MOTHER” you could be to your children.

When I am in this room I am reminded of the love we shared ~ the laughter ~ the times of sadness ~ but as a family we  got through any sadness or hard times as a family.

Today I miss them, and I will always miss them ~ I’m blessed to have had the love of both parents ~ and to be taught about love  ~ respect ~ responsibility ~ and honesty. Sadly not all of us today really know about those qualities and we are a dying breed for certain.

I can only hope that my children will feel those great thoughts of me one day. I certainly do hope they will, as well as my Grandchildren

 

~Debbie~

~EASTER REMINDS US OF HOPE, LIFE, AND LOVE~

The real meaning of  Easter, is the Resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. To Christians, it is the most special day of the year. Yes,the birth of Christ is quite important. But, his resurrection offers the hope of everlasting life to everyone! The Lenten season leading up to Easter Sunday is a time of fasting, sacrifice and prayer. It is the christian way of replicating in a small way what Christ sacrificed for us, both in his fasting and his final death on the cross.

There is a famous Easter game called the Easter Egg Hunt. Early morning kids go outside to find the many colored Easter eggs that the Easter bunny has hidden the night before. The Easter Egg Hunt was the first game ever invented. It is said that the reason this tradition started was because of the Easter Bunny dropped the eggs on the way to deliver them and they hide themselves. That is how the Easter Egg Hunt was supposedly invented. For more information see the Easter Egg Hunt page.

Most of us will celebrate both parts of this spring holiday. Upon awakening Easter Sunday morning, the children will hunt for the Easter basket left by the Easter Bunny. Then the family will dress in their finest new spring clothes, and go off to church to celebrate Christ’s resurrection. From there, the holiday tradition varies. Some have a big breakfast of brunch feast. Other family will have a big main meal with baked ham being the most common meat. Brightly colored hard boiled eggs will also be popular. It is not a day for high cholesterol diets. It is a day to feast as the long lenten season is over and Christ has arisen.

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